i want to that my friend like sister loves me a brother or n
Question Posted Sunday August 13 2006, 10:48 am
hello,
pls tell how can i test that my friend turned like sister to me loves or not.i am a male 25 years from india and my sister 25 now.we were both collegues at one time but gradually she treated me as her brother and i treated her as my sister.know the problem is both are working in different companies she never calls me even know, but i daily call her on her GSM but she tells that she is busy.know i am started feeling that she does'nt like me.recently we celebrated raksha bandan also i offered her sweets from my hand and took blessings from her as a sister.i was very happy that day, but the thing is she does'nt talk to me very much.so i wanted to know that is she loves me or not as a brother.at times i think that she does not love since i am not in their family blood.so please tell me how to confirm that she loves me or not.because these days i am very disturbed that my friend(sister) is not speaking to me.please sujust me how to confirm that she loves me or not.thank you. will be eagerly waitng for your reply. my email address is crazymayur@gmail.com.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Brandi_S answered Sunday August 13 2006, 3:38 pm: I don't know how well I can help you with this one. You are from India and I am from the United States so I'm not familiar with your customs.
You said that you took blessings from her as a sister? I'm guessing that means that she feels like a sister to you? If that's what you are meaning, then she feels like she is your sister and loves you as if you are her brother. So, yes, she does love you.
As for being too busy for her to spend time with you or talk to you, I know that happens a lot between brothers and sisters here in the US. Sometimes people just have a lot of things happening in their lives to make time for their loved ones. Maybe you can get ahold of her and try to set a date for you to get together and and spend some time with each other. That would also give you a chance to talk to her about your feelings about this. The best way to confirm her love for you would be face to face, but I am nearly certain that she does love you as her brother.
Hope I was helpful to you and I hope you get a chance to talk to her soon. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
HadesJr answered Sunday August 13 2006, 3:28 pm: I have a sister too. it might just be a phase she is going through. but if not, I don't know. well hope it helps. [ HadesJr's advice column | Ask HadesJr A Question ]
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