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Why is this happening
15/female. i dont have a boyfriend even though i want one soo bad. i guess i get shy at times and thats why i dont have one. you know that young love kind of feeling i never had that and i think its because i have a father figure in mylife ..hes my protector and i love him very much but at times i cant stand him for the things he does and because i think it's his fault i never had a boyfriend. Dont get me wrong i'm very grateful for him. but when i was younger and boys wanted to go out with me i always felt i didnt need a boyfriend. now that im older and my hormones are doing what they do best i feel like i want a guy that i can be close with. but everytime i'm around a boy i like and he puts his arms around me memories come to me when i was little when my father use to hold me around the waist. or if i lean on a guys chest it's like when i was little when i use to lean on my fathers chest giving him a hug...does anybody know how i feel?? why do i feel this way??
i really want a boyfriend but i dont wanna act weird around him. and most guys usually just want to fuck me and im still a virgin so its really hard to have a good boyfriend unless we're probably friends first. but i have no actual boy friends:(
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okay, first of all you don't need a boyfriend to survive. it's hard to find boys who are in it for the personality and fun and not just for the sex.
be yourself around guys and don't be shy. be bold and confident but not hyper and such.
when a guy puts his arms around you or lean on him, block out the memories and just enjoy it and talk.
and if guys just want to go out with you to pop your cherry, they're not worth it.
remember, you dont need a boyfriend. having guy friends is the best thing a girl can have =]
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Well, its kinda obvious that you feel this way because your father has been such a huge influence in your life. If you find a guy, a good guy that dosen't just want you for sex or tries to use you in any way then you could just explain to him your situation with the touching and everything. If they really like you then they'll understand your situation, and you guys will probably be better of because of it. Hope I helped
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