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Am I forgotten??
I dont go to church as often as I should ( maybe 2-3 times a month ( instead of every week). But anyway, my best friend's younger siblings are gettin blessed this upcoming week, and I am going to be there because thats where I go to church but, my otha best friend's mother got an email invitation to go. Now the thing is my girl best friend ( who's mother got the official ivite) she is an actual official member and has been going there ever since she was two ( now almost 15) and my guy best friend ( who's siblings are getting blessed) has been there for six years...so there families know each other. But I am pretty cool with his mom, was I forgotten why I didnt get an official invite. I am the best friend here, but he told me about it on the phone, but what if they and who ever got the ivite are having lunch later on..I wont be there, was I forgotten, am I unwanted. I just want to be included tho...but its hard because kids can only have so much of an impression on adults...and my dad isnt that social...so adults dont really know me because they dont really know my dad, my queston is.....how do I get included, and does my best friends family not like me enough to invite me?? Or am I just jumping to negative conclusions?? HELP
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I do not believe that your friends or the adults has purposely ininvited you; first you must remember that you are hardly there and I believe that it just wasn't in the scheme of things from their prespective to invite you
Also you must remember that each individual person handles people and situations differently, and what I mean is this; the fact that you are rarely involved in the church meetings there are people who would'nt think to mention this occasion to someone who they think isn't really interest or preoccupied with other things and there are another another kind of people especially concerning a church event they will extend the invitation no matter how many times you're rarely there however I believe these people are those who perhaps are called to thiis kind of mission and unfortunately in many cases unless people are called to this kind of work as it relates to church functions they may not be motivated to extend the invitation and on the other hand your friends in particular may have considered asking you but because they may not know if they'll ve successful and I believe that is why your friend mentioned it right before the time .
However after all I mentioned I don't believe their intentins was to leave you out and I belive God has allowed you to be sensitive to the fact of the matter he want you to give more of your time serving him and be attentive to things that involves him
God Bless You !
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Just don't worry about it too much. You may get your invitation later. You can always talk to your friend about it, they will probably invite you if you weren't. Don't let it get to you, though, its nothing big to worry about.
i hope i helped =]
Jess
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