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exFriend probelems
Alright well I had this friend. She was younger than me and was in a lower class. When she moved up to my grade [which was in a different school], she changed a lot and started ignoring me. She would always give me this weird look that made me think she hated me/had no idea who i was. she would hang around with different people [not to be rude, but "ghetto" people] and she ditched me on halloween and made up this stupid excuse that she cant go out [later i found out she went out with her other friends]. Well after a while it was really starting to piss me off so i asked her why she ignored me and lied to me and stuff and she said she would stop and that she had now idea what i was talking about. But she kept ignoring me. So me and her arent friends anymore. That was about a year ago. Now a new school year is starting, and i guess i kinda wanna be friends with her because she used to be a cool kid.
I dont know what i should do.
Should i forget about her,
or try to be friends with her again?
Help please?
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Well, that is completley in your control and up to you. She might have been a "cool kid" at one point, but obviously, she has changed. Think about it, do you want to be friends with someone who lies to you, ignores you, ditches you, and is mean to you ? I wouldn't. She chose to leave you, and if she chooses to come back, well then, you can decide what will happen. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't be friendly with her, I say go for it ! :] But don't expect that she has changed her ways, if she even attempted to, she would have reached out to you and SINCERELY apologized to you, and PROVED it. Lying, ignoring you, leaving you.. doesn't prove it. The choice is yours, but in my opinion, you're better off without her and can find much better friends who DESERVE your great friendship :] !
good luck, hope i helped ! xxo :]
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