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Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could only stay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do?HE was never liek this before and all of a sudden he was acting liek an ass. I'm confused and i think i will regret iof i break up with him but at the same time i want him to go out with his exand see how diffent it is and realize he needs me but then i feel like i'd look like an idiot if i go back with him if he comes back to me later
please hlp thanx soo much for reading this. I'm 14 and a girl.lol
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First of all, the first rule in a relationship is that there should be trust, and you did trust him, and then what? He slept over at his friend's house, and asked her to pull her shirt down so he could see her boobs, and he put it on camera too , for what? To show it to you and make you jealous. This could be the most disgusting and low act i have ever seen .
Second of all, the second rule in a relationship is for the guy to stand up for his girlfriend and defend her, but did he stand up for you when this whole fight happened between you and his ex? No he didn't stand up for you.
Well then what does that mean, that means that he simply suddenly out of the blue ,lost interest in you and just doesn't care about your relationship anymore ,because if he did, he would have never laid a hand on another girl, and he wouldn't have ever stood there and just watched a fight between you and someone else, and especially his ex. He simply doesn't care anymore and he simply doesn't like you anymore. Why? Because he is a selfish disgusting low person. and you on the other hand, are a caring kind and polite person so don't just throw these things away on someone like him, someone who obviously doesn't care about you, your feelings ,or the thing going on between you and him.he may have loved you and cared about you back then, but this was never true love, becuause true love goes on forever and you never lose interest in the person opposite from you.
As much as i know how much this is really hard for you to accept and listen to ,but its all true, and you should have known this by yourself,you didn't any counseller's advice.
You just simply have to let go, and forget about him, and who knows? Maybe he would hook up with the girl who he was so desperate to see her boobs, what a low person? is my only comment.
And if i have anything else to say, i just want to ask you a question, you are a counseller and you give advice to people, if you were in my position and you were giving advice to someone and this was exactly what you would say, then go for it and do it, but if it isn't what you would say, then don't call me a counseller.
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