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should i tell him and let her get her way?


Question Posted Tuesday August 8 2006, 5:21 am

ok...well there's this guy right...he is soooo nice 2 me! We even wen't out 4 like a month.
But my best friend started talking 2 me saying stuff like"oh you and bryan don't even make a good couple...not that i like him or anything but he`z just 2 ugly 4 you and it's not that i like him" and stuff like that.So then like 2 weeks ago we broke up.He still likes me and want's to give it another try but i don't know if i want 2=/
It's like hes a great guy and i love him but it dosen't feel like love love more like friendship love or something...i don't wanna hurt him and i know my "best friend" likes him because she would always be jelous when i talked about him.Bryan keeps asking me y we broke up but i dont know what to tell him i mean i can't just say oh because my friend likes you....but then i think maybe they can love each other......altough it kindah makes me a lil well let me say ALOT jelous lol.What do i do???


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katie_knows_all481 answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 10:41 am:
don't let your friend come between you and this guy. If you still like him, and if she likes him, you should both forget abuot him, or it could possibly hurt your friendship. IF it makes you jealous, and you still like him, and when (if) your friends gives up on him, you guys can go out again.

Just nicely tell Bryan that you just want to be friends.Tell him you will always be there for him (and mean it!!) and he will probably be ok with that.

Hope i helped!
Katie***

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Nallie answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 11:41 am:
Why would you be jealous if you only love him as a friend? Your best bet is to allow them to be together and be happy...because that's what we should want for friends. Tell Bryan you can't love him like you should because you think of him like a friend. He apparently is not the right person for you if you broke up with him. Give it some time and you will find the right guy that will be all yours..and yours only, because your friend will be occupied with Bryan.

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