ok about 30 min. ago me and my best friend 3-way called my boyfriend and she told him i want to break up and still want to be friends and he said "im very mad and i dont know if i want to be her friend".now im still on the other line.well then he hung up i thought.i told my friend that i fell really bad but a little happy.i said alot of other stuff also.then we hear someone say my name and it was my b-friend.i guess he did not hang up.as soon as i heard that i hung up the phone.then he called me back and was like pick up the phone i know your there.well now i fell horrible and sick to my stomach.i know i dont still like him so why do i fell so bad? i cant talk to any one because my mom is iraq and dont want to tell my dad.we start skool in three days and i dont want him to hate me.HELP!!!!!i need help!!!PLEAZZZZZZZZ
What you did when you three-way called your boyfriend and made your friend give him the bad news was very very mean to him. He deserved to hear from you, hearing it from your friend only hurt more, especially since you mislead him and let him think you weren't listening.
It doesn't matter if you don't like him anymore, it still wasn't nice, and it sounds like the pit of your stomach knows that.
Call him back and apologize for misleading him with the phone call, then tell him you just don't want to be his girlfriend anymore. He might be angry and upset, but I bet you'll start to feel better because you'll know that you have done the right thing. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Lola answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 3:52 am: Hey,
I know it seems really complicated to you ,but its actually simple and the solution is right infront of you. Just talk to him and explain your situation, and say that things aren't working out in your relationship and you just don't feel really comfortable, thats why you want this to come to an end. You can be friends or you can just both forget each other and move on with your lives. And he doesn't have the right to fight with you or say anything. Because you just don't feel really comfortable in this realtionship and its your right to end it.
So consider what i said, and try to tell him that, and if you need any other help, please be free to contact me.
Goodluck:) [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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