i have i guess a stupid question but if u can stick 3 fingers in your vagina well my bf does but umm and he goes deep and fast and ya...will it hurt when we have sex? and i am a vergin but because when i was little well long story but i dont no if i popped my cherry or not.....and if i can stick 3 fingers in ther and he goes as deep as he can....is my cherry already popped and if so how can i tell him withough him being upset?p.s. he has a bad anger problemb so i dont want to make him madder. thanks foe the help
If the answer to that question is, "yes, he might," then GET RID OF HIM. If he's someone with whom you cannot be totally honest because you're afraid of making him mad, then it is time to END this relationship before it goes any further. Any man who hits or even intimidates a woman is a cowardly, vicious bastard who certainly does not deserve the gift of your virginity, or anything else you might offer except a cold shoulder.
If he is not man enough to control his anger, then he is too immature to be having sex. Do not let the relationship progress to that stage until he has these problems under control.
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You don't ask him anything. If you feel you have reason to fear him, leave. Women have died because they didn't listen to the inner voice that told them to get out while they could. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
xostarbrightbaby answered Sunday August 6 2006, 11:23 pm: If he is going that deep with 3 fingers then your cherry is popped. Sometimes you can pop your cherry playing sports and other things. If he gets mad just tell him it can break just doing little things. And it won`t hurt during sex. ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
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