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I Feel Left Out
I have a group of frends that i am really close to, but whenever i am with them i feel extremely left out. i know they love me but i feel like they talk bad about me behind my back. i dont know what to do.
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I actually had some trouble trying to find an answer. So, I asked my best friend - Laura. Cause, I know she has experienced it!
So, she told me her feelings on it and I'm going to tell you what you can do to solve this issue!
You can thank her! :D
Well if you really feel like your friends are igorning you - just tell them! If they start argueing with you, then their not good friends!
Here is what Laura had to say:
[i blocked out her screen name to say Laura]
Laura: i know exactly what you feel like, cause i was once there, i was new to the school, and i had made friends with like the coolest nicest people ever! we had lunch together, we did everything, it was awesome cause i had never had so much friends before. but later on, i started feeling like i was excluded from things. like how they always went over eachothers houses, and sometimes when we were in a conversation they would totally just ignore. and i couldnt take it anymore when we were in world history, all my friends were talking and they made this little square and left me out, and they were talking and i tried to get their attention and stuff but nothing. so i left from the class crying. i know i;m a pretty sentimental person =] well, later on, i they called me and everything, and i spilled my guts out on how i felt, i told them everything. and then they never made me let out again, and were still bestfriends to this moment. so my point is just tell them, and if they start argueing with you, then they're not good friends, cause they'll admit what they did wrong, just tell them. im not really great at advice, so im sorry if it didnt help you but it worked for me. just dont worry about it. oh, and sorry for boring you with this long story. hehe =]
I hope Laura helped you!
:D
-Courtney
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