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I have this friend who moved away
Okay- I'm 13/f-
I have this friend who moved away a year ago- at first she called me to talk to me but know she calls and has her friends talk on the phone and she know I don't like talking to people I don't know and haven't met face to face I tried telling her to stop but she woulnd't listen and last time she called she put her boyfriend on the phone and he said "hey babe wanna see my (you know what except he said it out right)" So I hung up- I hate that- I don't mind hearing my guy friends talking abbout that but they never say it to me- do you think I should talk to he anymore? I was going to tell her"I don't want to talk to your friends if YOU call so, if that's why your calling don't bother calling again"and hang up but I don't know now what do you think- my mom hhas said she would tell her I was busy If I wanted her to but I didn't say anything
TY in advance
Jeni
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I don't think you should hang up on people, because it is very rude. But, do let her know that you don't want to talk to people you don't know, especially if they are going to be perverted. Ask her to only call you when she will give you her undivided attention because you will never get comfortable talking to a complete stranger. Hopefully, she'll listen to you, if she doesn't then try to limit how many times you actually speak to her.
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hey, well i wouldnt hang up on her thats rude/mean. maybe she wants to talk to you, but is afraid to call you alone becaues there might be akward silences? you should find out what the problem is and why she always call with other people. try to cater to her answer. after that you should tell her that you dont really like it when she calls you with her friends and you want her to stop or else she shouldnt call anymore.
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