Hey I am 13 years old. and i really like this one guy. He is really cute and he seems like hes more mature for his age. One night , i think it was because he was drunk, he told me he liked my breasts. and that he wanted to see them. but i didnt show them to him because i thought it was kinda akward. but he didnt put it was a strange pervy way. he was very upfront about it, hah its hard to explain but he was like " I know your gonna think this is weird and you probably will disagree and wont do it, but i think your breasts are very nice and i like to see them"
Then we started talking and he was a really nice guy and i thought he actaully was interested in me. He payed alot of attention to me and i liked it. But then a few nights later my friend had him and her other friends over and he and i were there. We barely spoke. But he always would say that i was a sweet kind girl. It has been like that for a week or so and i really want him to pay more attention to me. Because i feel really used when it comes to guys. They treat me like shit and i dont like it. How do i get more closer with the guy i like? and How do i get more attention or respect from the other guys??
thanks so much. sorry that its long.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Sunday August 6 2006, 1:27 am: To be honest, I don't think he was paying much attention to you. He didn't tell you he liked your personality or that you're funny. He told you he liked your breasts and yeah that's nice but he's more interested in your boobs than you. At least it seems that way. Why he didn't talk to you, I don't know but it's messed up. The next time you guys are together, talk to him. If he doesn't come up to you first, go up to him. Someone has to start the conversation. Maybe he was shy or thought you were ignoring him? Who knows. If he still doesn't talk to you, he's not worth it. I know it's hard not getting attention from the one you like, but sometimes you have to realize some of them are jerks. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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