|
sex. precautiond
hi, do u no of any pre-cautions i can take to having sex..because me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now and we think its time to take it to the next leval but we are oth kinda scared that the condom could brake or could already have a small tear thats not noticable if i can help please writ back.
thank you.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Well I answered this question for another girl, so I'll tell you what I told her.
There are tons of things that could happen if you have sex at this age. Well you lose your virgiinity, you could get a numerous amount of STDS (sexualy trasmitted diseases) and some are still uncureable today beacuse there is a growing population of them, of new ones they arent sure how to treat yet. And if you dont know how many other girls your boyfriend had slept with, the possibility of getting an STD is endless. I've never had sex, but from what I've heard it does hurt, quite bad. And that its awkward, sex isnt like on tv. Its not hot and heavy, or all that moaning and groaning. Sex is something you should save for something you are absolutely sure about them (when you are married). Atleast in my opinion, marriage is best. The main point, sex is very awkward for the first time, and if you;'ve never done it, it will be painful/awkward for you. But if he's done it before he wont seem as nervous, and thats not right. I highly suggest that you DONT DO IT, your too young, and I forgot one of the biggest things to mention that could happen, you could get pregnant, even if you havent ever had your period, its still a possibility. And never have sex until your sure you can raise and support a baby. If you cant then theres no reason tohave sex.
Once you have sex, the pressure and guilt will pile on you, and worry, especially if you werent sure but you just went ahead and did it anyways.
You'd feel pressure of what you did, what people would think if they found out, what if you were pregnant? Was what you did right? You shouldnt have done it? What if my parents find out? What if his parents find out? What if I have an STD?
What if he leaves me? What if he was just using me? What if he didnt even love me?
Its an endless list of questions, if your not sure about your partner.
You know, those are the questions you might be left answering.
OH and the thing about the condoms,
see thats the risk you take if you have sex.
Not all condoms hold, and dont break,
and your right some could have tears, that you wont know about until you have an STD or you end up pregnant, but that is a chance take but dont have to make, if you have sex.
I hope I helped hun.
If you need any one to talk to
Pleaes feel free to IM me,
KaylehMae
or my MSN or YAHOO
is on my advice page.
But send me an email first telling me what time to get on msn or yahoo.
I'm usually on aim 24/7
So yeah thats what I wrote for the other girl woh was rather "unsure due to the consquences"
and that was my answer :]
Its definitlye the same to you,
since the consquences are the same.
<3
]
More Questions: |