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heartbroken & confused
ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in like 2 weeks and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
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It's hard to say whether or not she is just the rebound girl or if he'll call to apologize. But, you need to make some decisions. You dated for two years and surely he must have been your best friend, do you want to keep that, or do you feels he's not worth the effort?
It's good to read that you have made some progress, it's always a difficult feat. But, do not let yourself relapse! You are bound to bump into him at school, that's life babe...it's going to make you stronger. I suggest you give yourself a hobby to take your mind off him, you'll be so busy with it that in no time you will get over him. And if he ever does call you, you'll have had a long time to reflect, so you'll know what your heart really wants.
Good luck...message me if you need any more help...I have gone through something similar. =]
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obviously, you can't make anyone date you or like you or whatever. why not try to be friends?? if you really 'hate' him or cant be around him because it upsets you, i think you should tell him & then try to avoid it. honestly, that's not the best thing for you to do, but it is an option. you should talk to him & tell him you want to be friends. let him know how you feel. you'll eventually get over the fact that you guys aren't dating, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want to be your friend. if he said he wanted to be single for awhile, that doesn't exactly mean it was your fault. juss see how things go. you might feel different once school starts up again.
-hope that helped!♥
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