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i like my friends brother
i have a crush on my friends older brother.
should i tell her the truth? i mean she already gets mad when i talk to him and get a ride with him to somewhere. and i dont want to end our friendship over this.. but i want her to kno that its not fair and the way she is acting is really selfish.. what should i do?
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i recommend that you tell your friend that you like her older brother, but tell her if she is not comfortable with this then you will just leave the matter alone because it is not worth the friendship,that you could always find another guy, if she is ok with the matter then you should tell the brother how you feel if he feels the same then you should date him but dont do anything around the sister then she might change her mind about the whole situation and never break plans with her for her brother ..i hope everything works out for you and that you make the right choice
sincerly,
Brittany
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The way she's behaving isn't at all selfish, it's perfectly understandable. I know I'd be pretty annoyed if one of my friends told me that they liked my younger sister.
I suggest you tell your friend that you like her brother but that you care more about her feelings than your relationship with him. Let her know that if it's not okay with her then you won't take your crush on her brother any further. Tell her that if she gives you her blessing then you will make sure that any relationship you have with him won't affect your friendship.
Hopefully your friend will be able to see that you can have a relationship with her brother without changing anything between you and her. However if she doesn't, then accept it and move on. Don't fall out over some boy.
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