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so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do? I dont think I wuold take him back but as selfish as this is I would just like him to say he made a mistake and want me back so I can say no, you missed your chance.
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i think that you should want him back just to say no. show him what he could have had. but get back on the market. if he sees that you still arent dating when school starts, hell think he has power. this happened to my sister and he asked her back out and she said yes. he kept breaking up for other then coming back. stay strong and show him that youve moved on, even if you havent quite. and i also think that he will call you to appologize if you look like your having more fun then you ever did with him. hell see that he made a mistake and want you back, but whatever you do DONT TAKE HIM BACK!! hope i helped!
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micki
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about a year ago the same thing happend to me i got my haert crushed. im not going to tell u form here on it will be easier becasue honestly and truthfully it really wont. yes seeing him in school will hurt and it takes a long time to get over someone you really cared about it took me about a year and im so happy im over him. i know it hurts and you always want to cry and your sad your not the gurl hes dateing. when i had almost completely been over him a couple months ago and i thought i was fine he told me he liked me again and it all started over. give him some time and if you know that he'll definatly not go back out wiht you keep your distance so he wont hurt you keep your distance until you know you can deal with it and you know your strong this is what i did i know it sound really hard to do but it helps trust me becasue then they cant hurt you again and make you sink further in the hole! well i hope i help rate please and if you ever need to talk my e-mail is wjpool@aol.com and aim s/n is wjpool
i undertsnad completely and im sorry you have to go through it
hope i help
-lindsey
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well this is wat you could do when school come act cool around him you now his not worth your time and your to good to be with him but to show him wat a chance he missed act like you dnt care about him go out wiht other guys in front off him if he asked for you again say NO because he missed his chance and if he didnt for get him you have the rest of your life to find the perfect guy have fun and anyway he is soon going to go to unersvcity so i would probably end your relashinip even if you were together
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well i think that its just a rebound specially if he broke up with you and then started to go out with someone else after he told you he wanted space! but if thats the way he wants to go then thats fine! when school starts show him you dont need him! (even if u do..pretend) or just act like it. mamek sure you look extra good and flirt around him with other guys. and when he wants you back tell him no. he'll be devistated and you feel grate. til school starts do things to fill ur day in so you wont think about him so much. like get a job or join a sports team. in no time at all school will be here and you can put you plan in ation. good luck.
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Ok, i personally think you should get over him i know it will be very hard b/c if i ever lost my boyfriend i would be devistated. ( i'm 15 & he's 17). I think that's really low of your ex to dump you because of that & he just want's to go out and find other people i think he just gave you a excuse, he's not worth your time. & he want's you to come crawling back to him so he can turn you down, DONT do that. When school starts show him you don't care and look your best if you want him back. And if he doesn't talk to you after that then it isn't ment to be. But don't try to talk to him wait for him to come to you. Also to keep him off your mind try not to listen to sad songs, think about your memories and hang out with your friends as much as possible. You'll get over him i so promise. Exspeacilly if you go find someone else. <--- which i think you should do :]
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&heart's; kayla
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Hey! It's very typical for a guy to say they want to be single and then go back and date someone else. It happens to almost every teenage girl. Relax about school, you'll cross that bridge when you get there. Try finding a guy that will support you and won't get mad the you're still really into this guy. His relationship is probably something more along the lines of getting you jealous so you'll want him back rather than a rebound. He knows it's making you upset and that's just how he wants it. You wait, he'll get rid of that girl and come right back to you before you crash. If you really love him, don't do that "no, you had your chance" crap because it will only make things worse. You've been upset for a while now and saying that to him and not getting him back will only make it worse. Try writing down the pros and cons about being without him and then the pros and cons of being with him. Whichever has the more pros, then you take. It will most likely be the being with him, but you decide.
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