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i don't know
Okay so I like this guy. He likes me too. But then a really good friend of mine likes him too. And he likes her too. Ughh what do I do?
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talk to your friend about it see what she thinks
if she says that she will step down. say no and that you value her more than him and wait to see what he thinks.. agree with each other that you both must be great for him to liek you both hehe and dont keep things rom eachother if you want your friendship to stay strong.
if she gets wound up by you with him. i dont think you can do any thing about it. same visa versa.. you could try to talk about it. co-operation really.
good luck
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Well, Talk to your friend. Say yall two have a problem. If one friend should hold back so the other can go, thats a bit unfair. Both should have to, but thats pointless, Talk to her and find some way to see who goes after him. Flip a coin? Then one of you can try getting with him, if that fails then the other can try. Its disrespect for for one friend to have to step down. But if you can find a way to make it =. And one thing i see alot of people is the the meaning of getting with some one, Like if she gets with him, but they broke up...She didnt get with him. She "Got" but to be with someone should be till death, But things mostly dont work out and he should be free game to everyone. A real logical thinking person should see this and wouldnt be so rude to say since we went out you cant go out with him. I`ve seen alot of friendships end this way.
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he seems a bit indecisive...as if one of you wont go out with him, he'll use the other as a back up. i'd say to talk to your friend, tell her that since he likes you both, that you want to make a pact that neither of you will go out with him while the other still likes him. that way no one will get hurt.
hope i helped!
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Hmm, just wait and see how things work out. He seems like kind of a player type if he likes two people at once, but hey, if you like him you like him. Just try & spend more time with him & get to know him better, and he'll probably start leaning towards liking you more. But if you really want to keep a friendship with that friend of yours who likes him as well, I wouldn't date him. I mean, guys aren't really worth losing a friend over & friends are hard to find. If you don't think she'll be mad, or if he liked her more & she would date him, then yeah, date him. It's really your choice. :]
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