I have a best friend I new her ever since 1st grade but I move school we hardly talk , so I have this other friend who I'm alwayz with but she still talk about her friend that she miss her, wants to talk to her tells me what they used to do together,. I though we were best friends but she alwayz trying to compare us to each other (her other friend)I want to be her friend maybe her best friend but she alwayz talk about her other friend I'm not telling her what me and my best friend used to do b/c I know she'll be like "so what I'm I and y you alwayz talktin about her" but she making me feel like I'm nothing to her. what should I do I really don't kno ..... I mean she know everything about me , my famliy ,my other friends ,she done been to my family party hangout spent a night @ each others house but I guess I would never be her best friend so my Q is what should I do to tell her if I'm her best friend with her talking about her other friend
?
No_such_thing_as_self answered Saturday July 29 2006, 2:49 am: Ha, She might be doing it without knowing. First off, dont hide it. Bring it out in the open like she knows it. Say " Oh wow thats cool, even though i dont know her and i wasnt there." Point out facts in a settle way to show her disinterest. She`s not showing much respect when she can do something and you cant do the same. She`s basicly saying Im talking, pshhhhh. Its rude and should not be accecpted at all. Arent friends =? Or is there a + and a -. In jail you`d be the B****. Cuz that is whats happening. [ No_such_thing_as_self's advice column | Ask No_such_thing_as_self A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.