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just want an opinion..
so I recently met this great guy & now he's my boyfriend. it seems like we've known each other forever tho. anyway, i kinda want a schedule of what we should do & when... we've held hands, kissed & made out. we love each other as much as possible for the about of time we've known each other. when would be a good time to do something new? can you point me in the right direction? i'm 15 almost 16, he's 16 almost 17. thanks a lot!
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When it comes to being sexual with a boy, you can't have a schedule for what you should do and when. It totally takes away from the specialness of the situation. You can do whatever you want and when you want to. When I met my current boyfriend of 1 year, in the first week I got my first kiss, I made out for the first time, and I gave my first handjob. In the first month I was fingered and I have him oral sex. After we had been dating for about 3 or 4 months, he gave me oral sex and after we dated over 6 months, we had sex. I'm not tellnig you this is what you should go by, i'm just telling you that's how everything happened for me. I didn't plan it like that, it just happened.
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Well it depends on how far your willing to go. For the first month or so keep to kissing and holding hands. Show your love without getting to serious. You've already made out. I'm assuming you mean heavy kissing and maybe some touching. If you want it to go farther, as in touching and some clothing coming off, then you need to wait. Your relationship maybe serious, but you are 15. Being that you are both young (no offense, I'm young too) I strongly suggest not going any farther than third base (heavy kissing, hardly any clothes, and touching each others privates). If your willing to do that, then wait until you've gone out for a few months (as in more than 6 or so). Thats my advice to you. This maybe farther than your willing to go, but you didn't tell me how far you want to go. If your like me (I'm a sixteen year old virgin and I've only gotten as far as making out) all you want is making out. If you want to take it slow, instead of taking your physical relationship farther try making it for romantic. You obviously like him so making it more romantic will make it more intimate. If you want more specific advice, like what to do considering how far your willing to go, email me at lipglossash@aol.com. I hope this helps.
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