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There is this guy that likes me and I like him back. But we arent going out yet. But he thinks that I am more experienced then I really am. He knows I am virgin though. Is it really a big deal that I told him that I have done more then making out even though I havent. I dont want to tell him that I lied to him. I dont really think it is a big deal though. Do you?
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ey,if he likes you he wont care.
But i think this is a good way to know if he likes you or if hes just trying to get some.
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yea i think its a big deal, because he'll think that you want more than just a kiss. and you may not be ready. if you guys get serious you need to tell him
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If you guys get serious, then it is a big deal. A lie is a lie, not matter how small or how big. I think you should tell him, and if he asks you why you lied, tell him you just wanted him to think of you as a more experienced person.
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If you're trying to keep his affections for you, lying in order to impress him is just going to set you back like 10 steps. Tell him you lied about that and tell the truth from here on out if you want him to respect you.
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I think it is a big deal. If this guy thinks that you have done "more than making out", then i'm assuming that you've told him you have done other sexual things.
This can lead to him asking for things that you may not be comfortable with, because he assumes that you have done them before. It might be best to tell him, before you two start dating, the truth.
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heyy. i know exactly what you're going through. last year i told my boyfriend that i had kissed a boy before and i really hadn't. i just didn't want him to think thati was inexperienced. we ended up dating for 7 months and i just never told him. now we are broken up. i really did wish i had told him the truth because we didn't have the most awesome relationship..and that whole lie caused me alot of problems..like everytime he tried to kiss me for the first 2 months i ran away lol. so it might not seem like the best idea at the moment, but just call him up and say: "heyy. i want to be completely honest with you before we start a relationship, i haven't done more than making out. i only said that because i didn't want you to think that i was inexperienced. i know that i lied and it wasn't a good thing to do. i just hope you can forgive me. i really like you and i really want to go out with you. and i hope you still do too."
hope i helped! let me know if you need anything else =]]]
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