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a friend & ex-friend
hey i got in a fight with a FRIEND not BFF or anything in march and my so-called best friend was friends with her but then they got really close and i am getting really mad at my Bff... should i just ignore it or should i just slowly depart from the friendship? xox
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, it's understandable that you are feeling upset that your very best friend is really close with someone you've been in a fight with.
What you need to decide is how much the friendship is worth to you. Do you want to break it up because your best friend is friends with someone else? Take some time to honestly think about how you feel - good and bad.
Then think about talking with your best friend. If you're really close, you're probably used to talking about the tough stuff in life. She'd probably really want to know what you were feeling - perhaps she has no idea she's hurting you, and she would be more sensitive if she knew.
A friendship is two way. If you feel you are still gaining things from this friendship, it might be worth giving her a chance and talking to her.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.
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