I dont get off when my bf fingers me or eats me out, whats w
Question Posted Friday July 21 2006, 12:06 pm
My bf (im 18, and hes 24) and i have recently started to become sexually active. He took my virginity too. He really enjoys giving me oral sex and fingering me. But when he does either i dont get any pleasure from it. He isnt doing anything wrong either. On the other hand when we have intercourse i get off from that. I feel bad i dont get off from oral because he really enjoys that. Is there something wrong with me because women are supposed to get something out of fingering and oral sex and i dont? thanks!
It's up to you whether or not you want oral sex to continue. This involves whether you will experiment (having it after penetrative sex, etc), put up with it for his sake, or decide to spend both of your energies focusing on what you DO like.
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