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Question Posted Thursday July 20 2006, 2:26 am

sounds silly, but if a guy doesnt come in your mouth during oral sex where does his come go?

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elipongo answered Thursday July 20 2006, 9:14 am:
At first glance, I thought your question might be related to something that's called "retrograde ejaculation". That's a situation where a guy has an orgasm, but no semen comes out the tip of his penis. This happens because a valve inside his body is malfunctioning and the semen winds up in his urinary bladder. If this is happening, he should be seen by a doctor.

But on second glance, it occurred to me that your question might be rather more straightforward than that.

I'm assuming that you've never performed fellatio on a boy and have never seen an ejaculation. That you're wondering where the "right" place is for his semen to go if you don't want it in your mouth.

When a guy ejaculates, it comes out in spurts somewhere between a water squirt gun and a squeeze bottle of glue- depending on the intensity of the orgasm. The semen will go wherever you aim the penis. Most guys don't really care where it goes once it's out- so long as it doesn't stain his bed sheets or clothes. It's likely a good idea to have a towel or tissues handy to clean up...

Some guys like to spray their semen on a girl's face or breasts or other parts of her body. Some girls like it too, but its more of a dominance/submission thing than a sexual thing, per se.

Having said everything above, however, I would advise you to WAIT and hold off on doing this. If you think you're going to hold onto your guy by giving him this pleasure, he's just going to want to get more out of you soon enough. Oral sex leads to regular sex soon enough.

Are you sure that your relationship has reached the level where this is appropriate? Is it likely that he's using you for his own pleasure and has no interest in a real relationship with you?

Take my word for it, guys may enjoy playing with the girls who give them BJs and other things, but the ones they want to have relationships with and to marry are the "good girls".

Good luck, and I hope that this helps you somewhat.

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Elcee answered Thursday July 20 2006, 8:29 am:
If you are happy to have a guy come in your mouth then you can swallow the sperm or spit it out. If he does not come in your mouth then it will go over whatever his penis is aiming at. It is always a good idea to keep a supply of tissues handy to mop up the mess. If he uses a condom during oral sex (advisable to prevent STDs) then the come will stay in the condom. I hope this has helped some.

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