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get him to notice me..but i dont want to like him!
16/f
how can i get over a guy that i was really starting to like? because now he has a girlfriend and hes loves her so really there is no use..
plus i feel bad because for awhile i was kinda using my cousin without even realizing since i liked their neighbor and hes always over at their house.
but i always want to hangout with my friend because i know there will be a good chance that i will see him! this needs to stop..how can i help this? hes all i can think about..sadly.
plus if i do see him do you think it would be better that we didnt flirt because he always flirts with me still so should i like not totally blow him off but not flirt so much? kinda playing hard to get.
i just need tips/advice!
thank you <33
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it's good that you're backing off because he has a gf. there are plenty of girls that will keep trying for a guy no matter what. i think that's really disrespectful to his gf, so you're doing the right thing. the only way to get over it would be to date around. meet new guys, hang out with them, etc. you should play hard to get, because he does have a gf. if he flirts with you, that's his decision. don't be a true flirt back. that situation could be kind've not so good. you're right though. don't totally blow him off. you might even want to tell him that you do like him, you're trying to get over him, & that you still want to be friends. why?? yes he does have a gf, but you want to be honest too. maybe he really likes you & not her, but thinks you don't like him?? you never know. the best would be to talk to him about it & decide from there.
-hope that helped!♥
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