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i gess this would go in love life..well i have a boyfriend and im in 7th and hes sposed to be in 9th but he stayed back so hes in 8th and my family are fighters like gangs and stuff like that so im used to that but he is peaceful and it seen weird also hes a loner or what some people would call a loser and i think im going to get madefun of for going out with him plus hes emo and i kinda am and i cant brakeup with him becaue he has tryed to kill himself also my family would kill me if they new i was goin out with him and i feel bad that i have to keep it a secret but i really like him but my family would never alow it and so dont say talk to them im so confused i need help
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Why do you care if you'll be made fun of? You like him he likes you, that's what matters. And about the parent situation.. Sometimes you have to bend the rules a little.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~
P.S. There's no reason to feel bad about lying, you're helping someone. He tried to kill himself once, but knowing you are there it'll give him something to live for.
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Okay, this sounds very complicated, but I'll try to take a crack at this. First of all- Don't pay attention to what other people think. If they've labeled him a loser and he obviously isn't, then why listen to what they say?
Second- If he's that far on the edge, that he'd kill himself if you broke up with him, then you definitely need to get him some help. You need to try to reason with him, and if that doesn't work, you need to get him some professional help. If you can't get into touch with a police officer or psycologist, try calling the Suicide Help Line:
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
You can talk to them anonymously about your boyfriend and ways to help him.
Third- If your parents wouldn't approve, then you probably shouldn't be going out with him. But, you're in this deep already, and considering your other problems, I don't think either telling them or breaking up with him would be good resolutions at the moment. Get your boyfriend straightened out, then tell your parents about your situation. Trust me, once your boyfriend gets help and they understand that you just can't break up with him right now, I'm sure they won't be as mad at you.
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