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lonely friend
I'm scared that my Best friend doesn't like me anymore. We're both 13 years old. She never calls me any more and when I asked her about it, she said that I don't have to worry about it. She said that we would hang out a lot over the summer, but I've only seen her a few times. I think that she's busy, but I dont know. What should I do? I really want to stay friends with her.
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Just because you don't see your friend much over the summer doesn't mean you still can't be friends. I have friends over teh summer that i only see a couple times, if at all. we are still great friends though. If she doesn't call you, call her! Email her, write by hand even. Call her and schedule a trip to a local pool/park or have a sleepover. Just because you don't hear from her doesn't mean she is purposely trying to ignore you. Some people are just busy.
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don't ask her about so much that will drive her crazy. this happend to me before i asked that and it drove her crazy but i wanted to stay friends with her so i done something extra special for her. getting her something she wants our giving her a bighug our just flatout surprising her might do the trick. i will warn you if you do something extra special for her and she likes it and you both start being good friends again try not to miss it up so always let her have her way if you want to stay friends with you long.
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You just have to keep calling her. And say wanna hang out? if she says no ask the next day. Dont give up and it will show her that you really do care about her and maybe thats what she needs.
Good luck
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I've kinda been in this situation before...
She's your best friend, and if you don't want to lose her, you have to contact her, even if it means calling her 3 or 4 times a day. She probably wants to talk to you, she just hasn't gotten around to it; or, she is being a typical girl and waiting for you to call her.
When this kinda thing happened to me, my friend didn't want to talk about how we hadn't talked(if that makes sense).. so if she says that.. just give her time, and don't stress about it- she'll eventually realize that she needs to talk with you.. so just be patient!
Let me know how it goes!
--Jack
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