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Dating after divorce
Dating after divorce
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You are like most of people experience the anxiety of being divorced and single. This is a very hard time to try to get in to any kind of relationship, because you may not be ready just yet. Even if you think, that all you want is a some"companionship" to get by, it will still be hard to be with someone new. You are too vulnerable...
Most of women do not want to be a "stepping stone" for you while you getting over your relationship, and dealing with divorce; there fore you have to be honest with women.
May be you can meet someone who is also just getting a divorce, and may be interested in this kind of "comfort" relationship; and as long as you both are ok with it.
Even if you did find someone who is not going through the same thing you are, and say she would be ok with the whole situation; do you think in a long run, while you date and have intimate relationship with this person, the "nothing to serious" will be ok with you?
Do not set yourself for failure..You will be the one to get hurt again!
Try to find support through your family and friends, and when you are ready to start dating again, you will know!
Sometimes being alone is a good thing. It lets you re-access yourself, and find some peace and sanity.
You are down right now and it's normal, do not feel that if this marriage failed, you are not going to find eternal bliss. May be it was not just meant to be, may be you are not right for each other,[u] [b]may be you both did not want and fight enough for your marriage![/b][/u] Love is not always enough to keep your marriage, but it is an ultimate desire to be together
will make it work.
You also have a child, that means you will be in each others life forever, so you have to try to make the best out of all this mess for the sake of the kid. And if your ex wife understands that to, you guys are going to be fine.
However, going back to dating; you will definitely be more careful this time, and more picky to.....Learning from pain (unfortunately) helps you to realize what you need and want from your future relationship...
You can start by chatting with women from online the dating , see how it feels to get back to the "game" again. Harmless flirt can be very refreshing.
Then, when you are ready to actually meet someone, you will find all the right things to say and do..Do not rush in to anything right away!
Women had have been hurt, broken hearted, divorced to; they are not looking for a "round two"!
Regards,
Tanya.
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