[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Tanyaw answered Monday July 17 2006, 3:53 am: This is a very sensitive subject for a lot of people, so you have to have the right approach. Some people will find such request from their partner
very offending.
First of all, you need to ask your partner, as to whether or not she wants to try it, and you need to be clear on your intensions (the details).
You also need to make sure, that your mates "No" answer will not interfere with your relationship in the future. If she really is
Not interested, and doesnâ??t believe in such "experiences", then you are facing her concern of whether or not you will be resentful for the rest of your life, and why do you need somebody else when you already have her.
Now, in the other hand if she agrees, and you find a person you both would feel comfortable with, make sure you realize the possible consequences!
After something like this happened, you and your partner will never be the same! (Not speaking from personal experience!).
I believe that one or both of you will wonder about another person (the third one); have some "performance" issues and insecurities; and/or will be totally crashed from the experience and the visions.
Now, if she asks for the same back, another wards she gets to be with you and another men...How do you think you will handle that?
Just imagine her with another guy, enjoying herself, and may be looking very happy...How would that make you feel? Would you be ok?
So, you are really taking a chance here! However, it may all work out for the best!
Good luck,
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