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How to write profile for men/Communication
How to write an online dating profile for men?
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Here we are again, how do I write a profile for men? We are so anxious to be viewed as and perceived as the best catch ever, but do you think the women really look for perfection? I think we (women) are afraid of the perfection, because if someone is extremely good looking and perfect, makes you look very narcissistic; and make us women feel insecure about ourselves! We want some one great with down to earth qualities; some one kind and loving; someone who can respect us; and understand us a little bit.. So, you (men) need to write about what you are looking for first, etc friend; pen pal or a possible relationship, because a lot of you are not looking the same things we are. Tell us in general what your best qualities are. Most of us are looking for someone with ambitions (doesnâ??t have to be a millionaire!); some who has goals, and doesnâ??t live with his parents; someone who can take care of themselves (at least!)... When you are communicating with the prospective date do not get carried a way about your previous personal life! We just want to know the basics (had a long term relationship; was married before or not; any kids etc) not the details who's fault; and how much you despite your ex! In our late twenties and thirties, we have already fall in and out of love; we have had great and worst relationships; weâ??ve been loved, and hurt. So we do not expect you guys to be with out any "hung ups"; since most of us women have those too. The important thing is to learn from your previous experiences; and try to move on, and expect more positive and better things from your new relationship. If you have this kind of attitude (positive), you will most likely succeed in finding someone new. Your past relationships are in the past, so please keep them there...Nobody want to really hear it right a way, and nobody wants to be compared. I see a lot of this kind of mistakes; where men want to share there past with their new dates; they go on and on about how someone else who hurt them; and how miserable they are. Do you think we want to know this stuff? Not in the beginning at least. May be some men think that they will let the women see the sensitive side of them, but this is not the one we want to see... Sensitivities can be found in some of our behaviors; etc the way you respond to art, animals, kids, older people; the way you respond to news and politics..(You can score some good points this way!); she gets to see how intelligent and sensitive you are at the same time.
Thanks,
Tanya
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