Ok not to be rude or anythingg but i only come to advicenators when im REALLY desperate/ upseet/sad. Ok heres the whooole story. So i started going out with this kid mike in december that i REALLY liked and we were so good for each other, for a while it was going really greatt then him and i started fighting alot and by alot i mean everyday. It got so bad to the point where he would scream at me and call me and cunt and a slut. This stuff went on forever and even tho it isnt physical abuse its emotionall abuse and i would cry every night about how hurt i was. finally we broke up and i was crushed, becuase he is the one person i havve realy loved in my life. and now i am trying to find someone else but i cant stop thinking about him i mean love overpowers all and i want to get over him so much but all my guys friends right now are taken so its so hard. Also my x bf killed himself and it hurt so much and now mike hurt me too it seems like all guys hurt. love kills
someone please help i really need it
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sml111992 answered Monday July 17 2006, 6:47 am: oh im so sry i would be so heart broken i would absouetlly die if me and my current "bf" did that so i had a split second of how you must feel. but what you have to do is yes i know you heard b4 stay single for a while thats the best thing you can do for now. i sware to you if you wait the rite guy will come and you will love him and he will love you and if not then you know you guys wernt rite for eachother and that happens. im just saying from experience that when i broke up with the one i love i went straite out with another guy and i feel so bad now b.c i ididnt love him and he loved me so i had to break up with him b.c it just wasnt fair to him or me.
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alorra123 answered Monday July 17 2006, 4:22 am: first of all you need to know that ALL guys are idiots,some are nice guys, but their all idiots. ok all i can tell you is that if this guy was calling you all the names then he dosnt deserve your love, and you might have to be single for awhile, sometimes you have to wait for the right guy.
Lucky answered Sunday July 16 2006, 11:19 pm: I'm really sorry he called you those names. It seems tlike that was a long time ago. think about all the time u spent fighting with mike. do u really whant 2 get bac 2gether, if your just gonna keep fighting? I'm also sorry your x killed himself. those are not good bf experiences. think about all the cuties you can find in your school, and other places. once you start realizing there are more great guys around, you'll forget all what happened in the past.and maybe you'll start dating someone special, and you 2 will relly click. it's not 2 late 4 a happy ending.
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