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thanks


Question Posted Sunday July 16 2006, 2:12 am

good advice.. i dont know about how many girls there r out there though.. in a strictly non - bragging way.. im not that bad to look at and i do think i can treat a girl pretty good. i have one problem though.. girls my age never seem to know exactly what they want.. and maybe because of my upbringing or for some other reason i do.. i want a serious relationship.. and not just to say im in one.. no offense but i find the majority of highschool girls to want one for just that =/.. anyways then most older girls wont give me a chance for alot of reasons.. the judge to quick and think im to immature or just have a problem dateing someone whos younger.. so see im at a kinda standoff there.. btw you dont really have to give advice on any of that =).. ive never had too much trouble finding a date and i think i told you all that more for conversational purposes.. =) i kinda like chattin with ya.. sorry anyways the only thing i see wrong with what your tellin me.. and maybe its because i didnt tell you everything, sorry i have a bad memory and these things are so limited on how much they want let you type.. =/ anyways i dont think shes just cheating.. im really convinced that shes actually got another boyfriend.. one whom she goes out with frequently and all that other stuff id rather not think about.. so if im right then shes lieing to me anyways and when i take a break.. she will continue doin whats shes doin and when i come back she can just say shes been waiting for me.. how can i really know the truth.. i suspect shes lieing now.. how can i know the truth.. maybe all this will be easier if i come out and ask what i think has been my question all along.. i have strong opinions i guess you could say about what shes doin.. and it makes me think about it alot witch is really heartbreaking.. sitting here wondering if the person i love the most is in someone elses arms right now.. but, i really have no proof.. so the question is.. how do i find out.. if i can prove beyond a doubt to were she has no way to deny whats shes done.. or come up with nothing what so ever and set my troubles to rest i might actually find some peace.. before you answer that.. none of my friends over there are her friends.. we have about no one from the same circle so that wont work.. also i cant hire any kind of an investigator hah.. i dont have the money.. though if i did i might i dont know.. anyways so those to ideas are out.. as i said before i dont know any of her passwords to anything so.. thats out to.. you may just answer this message by tellin me you have no ideas =/ well.. i cant really think of anything else at the moment... thanks for sayin im a good guy though.. it was sweet of you and thanks for dealing with me =).. i know you will say different but i know i can get tireing.. hope to hear from ya.. Matt

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday July 16 2006, 3:55 pm:
hun trust me you are no problem. honestly. if you want to talk to me some more and cant finish it here i got AIM so we can chat. or yahoo which ever you perfer. if you want you can change yuor password and if she ass say she 4got it and had to change or better yet

you know tom makes you change your password every 6 months for privacy reasons?

i actually got an idea. plan a visit to wear she lives some time soon but here is the catch dont tell her.
a couple days be4 ur trip ask her if she is doing something that day. if she says yea ask ehr wear she is going and etc. but whatever you do DONT TELLL HER YOU WILL BE THERE. then you go wear she is at and surprise. if she is ding what said she doing you will know she is tell you the truth if not that you know what kind of person she is and how much she cares about you.

♥ Steph

p.s my aim is Sointoyoux0x x3

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