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ic what you mean.. and not to keeo coming up with ways to make your advice useless ( i really dont mean it that way ) but.... a few things.. on leaving her or letting her go.. ive really tried.. and i mean hard.. but i cant make myself hang up on her or not answer the phone when she calls.. i dont do that to anybody at all except my boss =) and after she gets on the phone with me its only a matter of time before my resolve is all but depleted.. about her friend... you said you let your friend go.. but your not friends with her really anymore.. thats about what i would expect.. my gf and her friend r goin on like nothin between them ever happened.. it just makes me have doubts on how important i am is all.. like i said.. anyone who tried to get in the way of me and her ( before things got this bad between us ) would have had hell to deal with on my part.. on the last part i cant ask her friend for anything.. when i went to my gf with the suspicions i had myself and the accusations of her best friend.. well her friend hates me rather acidly now.. oh almost forgot.. i cant sit and look her in the eyes to often.. we now live in 2 different states.. usually when we see each other theres nothin but passion.. witch makes commin back to the reality that our relationship is on the brink of failur after we seperate again, almost a crushing blow.. to me anyways.. i really dont know how she feels about anything anymore.. so i guess in short.. i cant really sit down and talk with her face to face.. not soon enough to help anyway.. i cant get any help from her friend.. and i just dont seem strong enough to leave her.. its really rather pathetic whedn i look at it like that.. especially considering how i use to be.. ive never let anyone push me around before.. at all.. most of my friends ( my good ones that know me well ) hate her because they see whats happening.. i almost feel like less of a man nowadays.. =/ now that ive written this out like this im beggining to feel like theres not much hope in this situation and im waisting your time..i just wiush i could make things go back to the way they were when we first told each other we loved one another.. just a little over a year now.. back then everything between us was really great and i could litterally feel the love coming out of her when we were together.. thats why im trying so hard to save this i think.. i may not be an expert but the way she looked at me seems hard to fake and im positive that at least in one point in time she loved me nearly as much as i love her..i do really love her.. well i thonk i might have worn you out with this one but just for the sake of the cause.. one last time.. send any help you possibly can... whatever it is i promise to do my best to see it done and make it work.. sincerily Matt
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it is completely ok. i swear i dont mind. your a greta guy you dont need a gril to make you feel down. i am sorry about the long distance thing. i am going through that know. it sucks. people say they dont really work but if you guys rerally do love eahc other it will work out..
i have a boyfriend that everyone says has changed me. i cant leave him because of love. so i understand were you are coming. form he cant treat me like shit at times and others like a princeess.no matter what i cant stop loving him so i am not leaving. if you feel that the love between you and your gf has been diein then i suggest to leave it alone.it is very difficult to love someone who doesnt love you back.
it is difficult to trust someone that lives so far from espacailly since you dont know what happens all the time.
the only thing i cant hink of that will solve your problem is to take a break. tell her to like that. tell her your lil stresed ot and need a break. see if she will wait for you. if she does then you will know that she does really care about you. if not dont waste your time i mean tehre are many girls that will love having you around.=)
&herats; Steph
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