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confused about a boy
Me and my friend have been friends for a while and recently she told me about her cusion. i met him and a couple months later we started going out. just last week he broke up with me suddenly because he said he wasnt ready for a girlfriend.(but i think it was someting else) then the next day he e-mailed me back saying he was stupid he did and he still really likes me a lot and misses me. now he is on vacation and he said when he comes home he will have made a decision about going out with me or not. I really really like him but if he ends up asking me out i dont want to sound easy and say yes but i really like him im just not sure if i say yes all of the time to him he is not oging to repect me. Also i've never made-out before and im dying to with him because he is the only one i would but now i dont know what to do!
help me please!
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dear confused,
just say yes. you wont sound easy unless he keeps it up. if he does it again just tell him that he had his chance and he ruined it. but i think you should go out again if you like him that much. but if he does lose respect for you, dump him. you dont deserve that.
as for making out its kinda hard to explain so i google it and i got this: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
dont makeout witrh him on the spot. wait until your relationship rebulids and gets stronger.
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You shouldn't be confused about liking him. If you like him, then honey you like him. Nothing you can do about that. If he askes you out, only you can say yes or no. If you feel as though it can work, and you and him are going to make an effort to see each other & fight for what you have. Then say yes, but then again.. you say you're not sure if he is going to respect you all the time. Honey stop right there, and think about that,.. if he doesn't respect you, then hes a jerk. All guys should respect girls, girlfriend or just friend. If you are worried about him not, then you should ask him about it. Tell him you're worried about him not respecting you, and that you want to make things clear. You WOULD NOT be easy for saying yes to him. You like him, whats easy about that. Liking someone is far from easy. Liking somone, is something you have no control over. No matter what you try to do, you can't stop yourself from liking someone.. even though sometimes we try. Just really think about things before you answer him. Heck, he said he would make a decsion about going out with you. Meaning :: he doesn't even know if he wants to go out with you or not. Keep that in mind while you're making your decsion. "He didn't even know if he wanted to go out with me in the first place, maybe he was just confused like me, or maybe he had to figure out if he liked me." You need to concider all that while you detrimen yes or no.
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As far as the making out goes. If you are confused about what to do the first time, follow his lead. Don't think about it to much though, just relex and have fun. Nothing at all the be worried about. Just relex and have fun :]
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Couple red flags in your question I didnt care to much for. Him saying he wants you, then saying when he gets back from vacation he will have decided? I would've been like, no. I'm not putting my life on hold till you get back from vacation. You either want me now, or not at all. I still would tell him this. Let him think you got other opportunities. If he thinks your willing to sit around and wait on him, it'll only get worser.
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