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he always gives me mixed signals
hey! well im 15/f and i know you guys have seen alot of guys and their girlfriends and all that stuff lately but i have the same problem. there is this guy and well we have been hangin out alot lately. but never just us two. its always me and him and then my other two friends (cousins). and well you see me and ryan (this guy that i am kinda crushin on) we always flirted nonstop and stuff until he got a girlfriend. she is gorgeous and im jealous! but whenever i see him we still kinda flirt and i dont start it he always does. today we all hungout and we were drivin him to his girlfriends house so he could hangout with her and some of their friends and on the way hes like gosh i dont really want to go....but we picked up him later and then we all hungout again and we played some game with a football and he always like hit me on purpose and stuff and we always like flirted..and he tried to pants me and all this stuff and would always stand behind me and do who knows what! i just dont get him. he always gives me mixed signals. i hangout with him more than he hangs out with his girlfriend! but it seems like he still really likes her and they just started going out a little bit ago so i dont think they will be breaking up anytime soon. i know i should try and stay away from him but i just cant he just pulls me in everytime i see him and my heart drops..sometimes it seems like he feels the same way but we never really talk about it! im not that kind of girl to be like hey do you have any feelings for me? noo thats not me. i can really see myself having a relationship with him though. but what do you guys think from what you have heard about this guy?!
thanks in advance :]
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i had the EXACT same problem OMG.
ok well i flirted with this guy like crazy and EVERYONE knew it and EVERYONE was always asking if we were going out. then he got a gf randomly? i was all like ok whatever but never said anything, and we still flirted.
i just went along with it and didnt do anything about it, and eventually he broke up with her. all my friends and his friends like told him that he didnt like her tho so i guess he like realized it?
i dumped him 5 times though, and i regret it.
don't do anything stupid it really sucks.
hope i helped.
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He likes you =D
Let things keep going the way they are, you will love it, and soon he will dump that gf of his, and give it a little time, and he you will finally be with him the way you want it.
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This guy is definetly sending out mixed signals to you and it's absolutely important to remember how guys act to their old girlfriends or around other people so that you can get an idea of what they are like when they are a boyfriend.
This guy is likely having a crush on you. I think it's become very obvious, but at the same time it's pretty confusing because yet he has this girlfriend now.
What you should do is let things keep running it's course. There isn't much you can do except try to tell him your feelings, but you don't have the courage to do so which is ok. If he really doesn't like this girl, then he'll get rid of her, but theres no reason at all that you should try breaking them up. You just have to let things go and let him decide what will happen in his love life. While you are living in the moment, don't be afraid to develop some new crushes and try having a summer fling or something like he is.
-TheTeenGirl
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