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i dont have a major problem..i just wanted a second opinion
(13/f)
Ok..well, i recently started going to church with my aunt and uncle(they live in a town next to mine) and the main reason i keep going to their church is because i think all of the kids at the youthgroup are really cool, most of them are older then me(its a really,really small church) and i recently found out that the reason that all the other kids are so close..and such good friends..is because theyve been through soo much together..one kids mom died of cancer a few years ago..one guys dad and stepmom like killed his brother in a fire..and he started running away, and now is in custody of his stepdad(hes so much better now,u would never guess he went thru all of that)...(the pastors wife told me all this stuff, so they dont know that i know about it)
-- basically i really want to be good friends with all of them..and show them im here for them if they ever do have problems..but they are so close..they probly dont want anyone trying to get into there tight-nit group of friends..so should i keep trying? and hope they want to be close friends with me too, or just back off..cuz its not like they ignore me, i mean ive hung out with them and stuff..but i kind of feel like an outsider still.........help?
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mikela.
aw. well. if you pick one. and make best friends with him the rest might see your not so bad and will let you in. i mean dont push it. just hang out with the one you like the most. but believe it or not being friends with just that one person could be good. i mean like not all of them will excatally be thrilled to add another aditiion. but you also need to make sure to prove to them your trust worthy and deserve to be in there little click. :]
PS. ana is at camp.
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