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What shoud I do?
I'm Thai. 24. Male.
I've been talking to a girl for several months and things appear to be good. I asked her sister that she likes me or not. Her sister told me that she likes me a lot. However, I am not the only who have been talking with her. There is another guy who is also chatting up with her. Her sister told me that she is still thinking of her choices (another guy and myself) and not yet making any decision.
Few days ago, I hung up with her and her phone was ringing. The first call she didn't take it. I asked her to take the phone, but she said she doesn't want to pick the phone because she is focusing on shopping. Very strange to me. Then the caller called to her friend's number and her friend just pretended that she is not with her and doesn't know her number. Finally, she took the last call in the evening by walking away from me like she doesn't want me to hear the conversation. I got frustrated and her noticed that. Next days she didn't pick my calls at all.
My questions are:
1) Does she angry at me due to my reaction few days ago?
2) Should I tell her directly how I feel or pretend that I don't know about another guy and beter wait for the right time?
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My opinion on the matter is that if she really is interested in you, then she'll call you back instead of you having to keep calling and hoping she'll answer.
I think she might seem a little selfish for taking a call and getting distant from you to take it. She probably doesn't want you to know that she does have another option aside from you because that might chase you away. But my suggestion is that you stop with calling her and make her come to you if she wants to still talk.
If she does end up callng which theres no doubt in my mind that she will, then tell her what her sister told you. Let her know that you are aware of this other guy and that you don't really like that she got as far away from you as she could just to talk to him.
Another thing that you have to consider is that you both aren't together. Which means that she can talk to other guys and flirt with them until then. So you can't be mad that she's considering options, it's nothing she's meaning to do to hurt you if anything. She's being a girl by doing this. But I also think that you should try meeting other girls too so that if this girl just takes too long at her choice, then you can honestly move on with someone else.
-TheTeenGirl
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Let me tell yahh Thai, what I think you should do, is talk to her. It will not get better inless you just speak with her.
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