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I started smoking marijuana around January of this year. Then the second time I did it was during spring break (twice). Then did it a few more times after that. I noticed I had to stop whenever my cravings for it were ridiculously scary. (does that make sense? i had swelling throat, face getting hot, room spinning etc.) So I didn't do any for 2, almost 3 months, but still craving it like HECK. But anyways, a lot of people at school found out what me and my friends have been doing, and didn't approve of it at all. These people are really close friends of mine, and claim to care about me, but then again their boys..so who knows? Cause for about..6 months, they've been calling me names and basically degrading me. I understand that they're not happy about it, but if they care, then shouldn't they be trying to help me, instead of "kicking me when i'm already down"? But yeah, I stopped for 2 months, but then just about a week ago, the urge won over me, and I got stoned. Yeah it felt good, but I hate myself for doing it. "guilty pleasure". Even worse, those boys who i would like to think of as my friends, found out. and they were super...mean. Basically, all of them look down at me now, like i'm below them. I don't talk to any of them anymore, cause they don't want to talk to a "pot head". I'm trying to stop, I really am. Why is it so hard for them to realize that people make mistakes? I'm only human.
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Well once we get over the fact that most guys are jerks, we also have to realize that there are some closed minded people out there. Maybe their opinions would change if people found out about some of the skeletons they have in their closet. I'm not saying that you should find something bad about them and spread it, but maybe try to talk to them and try and get them to understand what's going on with you. I know most people would say yelling doesn't get you anywhere, and it probably doesn't, but if they really don't listen, what else are your options. Try and corner them in, intimidate them, and MAKE them understand what's going on.
Either that or ignore them all together. It's really your only options. I mean, I'm sure ignoring their comments would be the "better" choice, but there are always other options. Not neccessarily better options, but there's never just one option.
Anyway, is that really all you wanted? You don't want any advice on the whole mariguana issue? I'm not going to give unasked for advice... so if you want any advice on that, send me another inbox and I'll let you know what I think about that.
Ohh, and of course you're only human. Everyone makes mistakes. Those guys need to get over themselves, get over your "bad" decisions. I put bad in quotes because though it's an illegal and not very smart, it's your decision and well, it's up to you what you want to do. But yeah, either try and talk to them and get them to understand. Realize that some guys are just big jerks, or ignore them. That's about all I can come up with.
At least you know that somseone out there understands that you made a mistake and you are (hopefully) trying to fix it.
If you ever want to talk, send me a question here or e-mail me (I think my e-mail adress is listed) if not ask for it. Or you can call teen talk. (or google their website) the number is on my column.
Hope I've helped.
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