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Lost 2 friends?
dear mikela&ana,
i got in a fight with two of my really good friends a while ago. And whenever we get into fights, I'm always the person who has to fix things, and talk about it. What if they don't try to make things better? I'm scared that our friendship will go to waste. I miss them, but for some reason, i feel like i can't let them know that. For some reason, i feel like i HAVE to act like i don't care, when i REALLY REALLY do. I don't know, a part of me says "WHO CARESS?!" then the other part of me is like "well, you've all had some GREAT times, and you still care about them dearly, and it would be nice to still have 2 friends, instead of losing them." oy, idk. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
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ana thinks: well. if you care this much they are obviously really important friends to you. some time when yall are together, sit them down and let them know that yalls friendship wont work if they dont pitch in, hopefully this will open up a whole new door to yalls friendship and they will express there opinions about the topic as well. dont tell yourself "who cares". because if you guys never work things out you will regret it to the maxiumm. dont let 2 good friends slip away, work it out (unless they arent contributing to the friendship).
if anything happens let me know. good luck!
mikela:
if your friend isnt trying to fix things. what kind of friend is that. i mean a real freind wants to work things out am i right. but if this is a fight over something stupid like OMG I WANTED THAT HAT! AND YOU WENT AND BOUGHT IT. then well you both will get over it. dont waste your friendship over something stupid. but if its something like real then deff dotn apoligiez i mean listen to their side of course its only fair. but dont be like dude we need to make up let them come to you. either way dont waste your friendship unless its something good. but try to be a bigger person.
LOTSOFLUV. peace
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