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should i give him a chance or not?
ok. I've been dating this guy alittle over a week now. My cousin hooked us up but his ex girlfriend is my cousins bestfriend. Well my ex boyfriend and his ex girlfriend wont really leave us alone. Shes been callin him,textin him and goin over to his house and everything like that but he ignores her calls and texts and everytime she has come he makes her leave. NOw shes leavin me emails tellin me how lucky i am and all this. i know that seems like shes bein nice but i have this feeling shes tryin to break us up because she made it clear that she still cares for him. Shes wanting to start hanging out with me and him but im not comfortable with that at all and i told her that. Now peoples trying to start stuff so ill break up with him. He's telling me that he really wants this to work and that he really likes me and all that...but im scared im going to get hurt in the long-run. I really like him and everything and im gettin out of a 2 year relationship with this guy so im really falling for the new guy. Should i wait it out and see how it goes or should i just leave him alone?
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What you should do is state your feelings one last time in an E-mail to her and then block her. Be upfront. say:
"I know you still have feelings for [Jared], but he is with me now and I'm not ok with us all hanging out because I think you need to get over him and try moving on. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but this is how I feel and it's going to have to be this way."
And as for your ex-boyfriend, again be upfront. Let him know that you feel like it's not going to work out between the two of you anymore and you want to move on. Let him know that you're sorry about the way things are now.
As for your current boyfriend: If you both really want this to work, work at it. Ignore the people around you that try to break you up. Make a plan and be open with each other. Have no contact anymore with your exes. Also make him let his ex know that he is done with her in friendship ways, and relationship ways. Make a plan with this guy.
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well ignore that girl. she just had an old relationship with him and she`ll eventually find someone new. and if that guy really likes you, he`ll let go of her and she`ll get tired of running after you two. and talk to him into getting really into you (work ure charm!! =] )
-don`t worry. good luck
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