Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now he is my first boyfriend and i get to see him this weekend i kissed him like a peck on the lips but not with tounge my mom dosent really aprove of french kissing at 13 so i am afraid to go to her and ask. So were going to the movies this weekend and i told him i would french kiss him but i dont know how too i never have before and im afraid im going to mess up and the whole time kissing him im just going to think about if im going to mess up or be bad at it i dont know what do im freaking out that im going to mess up more then anything.
Try kissing with a closed mouth again, and then see what happens. The two of you will work out together what sort of kiss is best for you. Chances are if you are enjoying the kiss, he is too.
Spending too much time stressing can make the kiss more tense or forced, though trying to relax can be difficult when you are nervous. Your boyfriend will be so happy to be kissing you, the last thing he'll be doing is working out a mental score card and rating your technique. Just try to go along with the flow - you'll probably surprise yourself.
Remember if you feel uncomfortable, it's very okay to stop and let your boyfriend know you're not quite ready for french kissing.
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