well, my i guess you could say im in love with my best friend.. we use to be a couple but we broke up because of the distance.. well i JUST moved here.. but we've became really good friends ! but my problem is, i wanna be with him so bad. and he says he's scared because if we break up he's afraid we wont be as good as friends as we did before we were going out. but i think that if we really cared about eachother, and we loved eachother THAT much then maybe it'd be okay, because even if we did break up, we could continue being good friends because we wouldnt let that happen.. and now i dont know what i should do ? helpp
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? holahayley56 answered Sunday June 25 2006, 11:12 pm: Well, it can work both ways. It happened to me. Once, I went out with this one guy, & we were best friends before.. now he hates me. The other kid, hes still my best friend. [actually were in a fight right now, but thats besides the point. lol] Its a possibilty things won't be the same.. have you ever considered friends + benefits? =) Sorry, I don't know how old you are becaus you didn't put it. But, that could always be an option.. if like half of it is you want like that type of thing like kissing & such. Its a risk. If you believe & you have no doubt in your mind, that you will still be friends after you would break up, then go for it. If you do, then wait a while. & let fate work its magic. I really hope I helped.!
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