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is he too much of a player???
ok theres this guy that ive been liking for about 2 weeks now. one day he e-mailed me and said he has liked me for over a month. then we started talking more and more over e-mail and we started to like each other more but he still hadnt asked me out yet. then i had found out that while we were messaging each other he was going out with my friend but they only went out for like a day. i keep hearing that hes wrong and that he'll cheat on me like he did his last girlfriend. but i still like him. what should i do???
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Yeah, he sounds like a bit of a player just from that small bit. I probably wouldn't go for it if I were you. First of all, he's a friend's ex. Even if they only dated for a day, they probably liked each other for a while in advance if they liked each other enough to date. Usually people talk for a couple weeks before dating, like you and him are right now. If you've talked to her about it and she doesn't care, I guess it's alright. But sometimes, those things come back to bite you.
Another bad thing is that he cheated on his last girlfriend. That alone tells you that he's capable of betraying someone that he supposedly cares about. I don't know about you, but it would be hard for me to trust someone that was a well-known cheater.
Of course, people are gossipy and not every thing you hear is true. But, I've found that typically, when someone has a bad reputation like that, it's somewhat true. They wouldn't get the reputation in the first place if it weren't true in some aspects.
But, that's just what I would do as a third party looking in. You can't help how you feel about people, I suppose. So if you think he'd make for a good boyfriend and you'd like to try it out, have a go. Just watch your back and take it slow.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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If he's said to be a cheater, and is known to have cheated on his previous girlfriend, chances are he'll do the same to you. I wouldn't advise getting into a relationship with someone who has that type of rep, because they usually live up to it ten fold & it's almost always asking for heartbreak.
And think about it - if he really liked you, would he have went out with your friend (even for a day)? Highly unlikely if he really had feelings for you. Don't get into it with him. It just seems like heartbreak & drama will fly your way if you do.
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