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I had to pee when he fingered me...
Hi, my name is Jenny and I was wondering about something that happened when I was fooling around with a guy.
He started fingering me and it was going really well, but toward the end, I felt like I had to pee really badly! It was so bad that I asked him to stop and when I asked him he asked if i had to go to the bathroom! It was absolutely mortifying! But I was afraid I would pee on him if he continued!
I've heard that it's near impossible to pee when fully aroused, but I'm still worried about it, what can I do to stop this feeling?
Also, was it a total turn off for him? Like, did my having to pee make him want to stop?
Thanks.
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Chances are this guy touched your G-Spot. A common feeling this causes is needing to pee. It's a normal response and does not mean you will actually pee.
Usually continued stimulation will stop this 'pee feeling', but if it remains uncomfortable you may decide this type of sex just isn't for you. However, it is very unlikely you could pee while aroused - despite how badly you felt you needed it. The added emotional discomfort of worrying about it could also have heightened the sensation.
Best tips? Realize this is part of how your body works. You're not a freak, and this is a normal response. You are not likely to pee. Once you've come to grips with the idea that this is all normal, you'll hopefully be able to relax and enjoy things a bit more!
As for how this guy felt, only he can say. Sex can be fumbling and awkward for everyone at points, and chances are this has not affected his opinion of you. After all, everyone needs to pee sometimes. At worst, he might have felt confused or that he wasn't doing something right - he is far more likely to be worried about his own performance than yours.
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