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I'm embarrassed by my uneven breasts.


Question Posted Friday June 23 2006, 10:52 am

I'm a 15 year old girl with uneven breasts. One is an 36 A, and one's a 36 B. It's not really noticeable through clothes, and even with bathing suits and bras I can adjust it to look like they're pretty much even, but sometimes I go into break downs cause I just want them even, and it makes me worry that when I get old enough to have sex, my lover will reject me. The only thing is, is that I don't think we could afford cosmetic surgery without help from Health Care, and my mom says that Health Care wouldn't cover something like this, because my breasts aren't causing me pain physically. Also, even if I were to get cosmetic surgery, I heard that many times they remove the nipple, so you can't breastfeed! Number one, I want to have kids some day, and be able to breastfeed, and number two, that'd just contradict the whole cosmetic surgery, because then I'd be embarrassed about having only one, or no nipples! Please help!! Email me at lavenderwolfcub@yahoo.com please

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alisonmarie answered Sunday June 25 2006, 8:05 am:
Most women have uneven breasts. As you've said, it's barely even noticeable. Any future lover would probably be so excited to be with you the last thing they would be doing was comparing your breasts.

Surgery does not remove nipples, particularly in enhancement. A breast reduction will often remove the nipple during hte surgery and reattach it afterwards. Whatever the type of cosmetic surgery, you would end up with two nipples.

Still, your breasts are probably not finished growing. Many young women continue to develop up until around their 18th birthday.

However your boobs turn out, you'll always notice any 'flaws' more than other people will. After all, you've got them all the time and can inspect them closely. Partners will not be focused on weighing them and criticizing them - they will be excited to be touching you and pleasing you.

Everyone has bits of their body they dislike. But at the end of the day, this is your one body. Any difference in the size of your breasts will be more noticed by you than anyone else - and any of your friend will probably have the same problem.

Surgery isn't a good option unless your breasts are noticeably different. It's healthier for your body to let it be, and it's healthier for your mind if you take some time to focus on all the things you like about your body, including the good bits about your boobs.

Best of luck.

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