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Question Posted Thursday June 22 2006, 9:43 am

me and this girl have been friendly 4 bout 5 months and the other month she txtd me sayin she has no got a bf and that she still wants to keep in touch with me cos she will miss me, and when we went on our date she has kept the photo we had taken of us and she has also kept the train ticket and this boyfiend she has now she says is " the 1" if he is the 1 y keep the ticket and photo of us?

the the other day she was meant to send her bf a txt and it appeard on my phone instead when his name is Kris and my name is Ste but K is nowere near S in the alaphbet is it? is she tryin to make me jelious r sumthin?

she says that the date we went on she will never 4get it was 1 of the best days she had and that when we kiss she went all funny but i still dont understand it? when we talk now we just end up arguing and bitchin bout each other then we say sorry 2 each other and that it wasnt nice but y does she still want me as a mate if we argue and then make up the other day she said she "hated me and that i had "blown it "( y had i blown it she says she dont like me anymre) and told me to "piss off" but then she txts bk and says sorry bout bfore . but if she dont like me and i pissd her off y she wanna keep intouch with me she says I always make her happy and smile isn’t that wot a bf is for? But she told me the other day she had got rid of the photo?


I know I shound havnt done it thou but I made a fake email addy to talk 2 her “bf” and I was talking 2 him and he seems a nice guy but when I askd him are you single he said ye iam but iam just getting off with this girls thou. So I think she finks they r seein each other?then I askd her wot is she doin 2nite ( last nit) and she said iam goin out with kris and havin sumthin 2 eat at his,but when I was talking to him askd him wot was he up 2 2nit and he said “ just a quite nite in watchin the football and I was talking 2 him till bout 11 ( at nite)anyways why is she tryin 2 make me jelious? I thought you only made sum1 jelious when u likd them?


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Elcee answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:49 am:
I think that she really does like you and is trying to provoke a stronger reaction from you so that she can work out how much you like her.

You two really need to work out what you both want from this relationship, whether it is just friendship or something more. Be honest with her and tell her what you really want. Tell her that she is making you jealous or annoyed or however you are feeling about the other guy.

Ask her out on a proper date if you want to or tell her to leave you alone if you cannot handle what she is doing to you.

Honesty is the only way to sort out this problem. I wish you all the very best.

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