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hey i need your help.this is going to be kind of long.but here i go:
So i met this girl, emily, ok at a picnic, our parents are family friends. Emily is 2 years older than me but we became friends right away.
She also has a brother, Adam, who is in the same grade as me, 9th. Soo i got her number and adams email on the day of the picnic.Soo me and emily talked on the phone everday and we were so close. I also talked to Adam online every once in a while. We were so bored online one day when he asked me to call him. So i agreed and i did.We saved each others numbers and text meseged each other and over time we became pretty good friends.Emily did not know about any of this; especially because she would be soo angry because in the picnic, when i would talk to him, she would be pissed.Soooo time went by and i saw her a lot, and i saw him occasionally when i'd go over her house. Last week he called me, and he asked me out. I told him i wasnt sure and id think about it. I thought about it for a few days and i called him back. I told him we can try it, but if it doesnt work we would just be best friends again. Soo about 2 days after that he traveled with his family on vacation. We email each other occasionally but im going there in 2 days so i will be able to see them. But here is my problem: today, i was talking to emily online, and she was being very mean and cold. When i told her i mssed her she'd say things like: oh is that why you dont send me messages and you send mssgs to other people?. I was soo scared..that she had found out something about me and adam. She kept asking me if i wanted to tel her something..and i kept saying no.
I mean she would be really angry if she found out. But, i mean me and adam arent officially going out, soo i can keep playing stupid and in the end when she tells me ill just say that were just friends..is that ok u think? plz give me good advice im really scared rigth now, and if you were in my position wat would you do.thanks soooo much hun
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Friendship is about honesty. When she asks if you have something to tell her, be honest. She's looking for you to be honest, and if you aren't going to be, it's going to hurt her more than just telling her.
Naturally, she's going to be upset that her friend likes her brother and is getting close to her brother. That will pass.
Talk to her and be honest with her. Lying isn't going to get you anywhere.
--Jack
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if emily was really your frend then she would totally understand but tht was something you should have told her like way in the biggening but now you jst made everything more difficult o well you have to tell her as soon as possible because if you dont then the problem will jst keep growing
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if emily is your friend then she should understand if you like her brother. thats very immature of her. im her age, and shes bein completely stupid. dont let some girl get in the way of your happiness, and if she wants to then you dont need her in your life.
if you like adam, go for it ! its your life, your choice, your prerogative.
i dont know why shes gettin angry or jealous over her OWN brother.
talk to adam first, see what he views on his sister gettin in the way. if he doesnt care, then stick up for yourself ! tell her that you like her brother, and she shouldnt get mad about it. if she does, then YOU DONT NEED HER IN YOUR LIFE !
just talk to adam first. if hes okay with you guys bein together you should be too.
good luck hun, any additional advice you need just let me know :)
x sweeethoney
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