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MY Cherry!
I was wondering why everytime my boyfriend friends me it hurts really bad?? He can only put his finger in about half an inch and it feels like he is hitting something!!! Could that be my cherry???
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It's common for this to cause discomfort or even pain if you are unused to penetration. This is because the muscles inside the vagina are very strong - this is more likely the issue, rather than your cherry.
Things to help: if you are feeing tense or worried about pain, this is only more likely to make your muscles clench up. Try really taking your time kissing, etc in order to feel you really want this to happen. The more emotionally and physically ready you are, the more likely fingering is to be successful.
Next, if you aren't getting very lubricated, you might buy some water-based lubricant for your boyfriend to put on his finger. This will help him ease into your vagina - and make sure he goes slowly. Be sure to speak up and let him know the right speed and pressure.
Don't worry. Things will eventually work. The first few times are likely to be uncomfortable, and then feel better after that.
Best of luck.
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