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ok like a day ago i told you about this one guy, that i told i liked him, and all he said was "okay" and went offline. So i told one of my other friends that goes to his school and hangs out with him alot what he said... and he said i figured... i was like y? he was like because he always sais oookay whenever some tells him something weird. Now i feel like a complete idiot. i tried talking to him normaly after, and he was responding normally, but he never starts the conversation, and he only answers my questions, he never asks ma any. Everyone also sais he has a BIG crush on this other girl.. so basically he doesnt like me.. and now i feel like crap... any suggestions on what he mite think or things to make me get over him. (althoug i really dont want to get over him)
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I'm sorry things didn't quite work out the way you wanted. Life is full of these little lessons. What seems to be major heartbreak will only make you stronger...trust me on that.
If you know he has a big crush on another girl, then what he is feeling right now is awkward. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but at the same time he doesn't want to lead you on.
Most guys will make an awkward situation worse, by acting wierd and ignoring the situation instead of talking about it, and then moving on.
Please don't feel like an idiot...you are far from an idiot. You took a chance, and unfortunately it didn't work out this time. Whatever you do, don't let this experience jade you from expressing yourself again. You just need to find the right guy.
As for getting over him...even though you don't want to, you need to. If you continue to brood over something that is not going to happen you will just wind up miserable. Time will help with healing a broken heart, it always does.
If you want, you could "break the ice" so to speak and bring up the situation yourself to him. You could put humour into it, to ease the tension. It may help put the situation behind you. Do it online if you're too nervous to do it face to face.
You may need to kiss many frogs, before you find your prince.....God knows I did!
Keep your chin up, keep being true to yourself, and your prince will come along before you know it.
Take care sweetie,
Brenda
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