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This guy I like..
I really like him alot. And just the other day his friend Andrew asked me if I would have sex with him. I mean I kind of do but I feel like if I say no he wont like me as much but if I say yes I`ll seem like a slut. What should I do <3
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hey!
ok i am going to answer this question a little differently:
if you say yes:
- he will think you are easy (aka a slut)
- he will assume that you would do this with any other guy
- he might think you are dirty
- he could use you for sex and leave you
if you say no:
- you will look like you have self respect
- you will come off as having morals
- you won't look easy, and give off the vibe that a guy can treat you like a piece of meat
- you will know if he really likes you or just wants to use you for sex. if he "doesn't like you as much" because of that, then he is a LOSER that just wants sex and has no real interest in you... forget about him and move on.
basically, the choice is yours. your actions and decisions are what make others aware of who you are. you have to respect yourself if you want to be respected by others. :) let me know if you need more help!
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