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brother of my bf
Dear Brenda,
Me and my bf has been trough a lot ....just to
be toghether
I had a big fight with his parents...(I post it on advicenators)..The problem was only with his parents..so we had his brothers and sisters coming to visit us almost everyday and that is fine but now it is getting to much ..we don't have privacy in our home and it is costing us to much money to have 4 extra people in house using electricity ,food and water .I have to cook for 6 people almost everyday ....and this cost money!!!!!!!
Last week the brother of my bf desided to stay for about 4 days and my bf did't ask for my permision..the thing is we have our computer in the bedroom ..he stayed on the computer
(with the radio on)till 6 o clock in the morning 3 nights in a row..The fourth day I told my bf that this is gettin to much ...we are only students and we can't afford to be spending so much money and that I couldn't sleep for 3 days long because of the noice..He told me that he was sorry but he did't know that his brother was gone stay for so long
I don't know what he told his brother but....
he got all mad and stuff ..the worst is he came last night and did't say hi to me and today he wrote ..."I don't need your house anymore to chat...thank God I have my own house to chat till the time I want"....on his msn
I really tryed to stay in peace with them because I don't want my bf to get in a fight with his brother for my sake ..BUT THIS IS GETTING TO MUCH!!!!!
How can he has the nerve to write something like that..after all I did for them
The worst is I'm feeling very sad...and anger ..
I wrote back to him telling him he is a ungratefull dog....I was very mad
Did I do wrong ......what should I do next??
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Hi
I have one word for someone like your boyfriends brother....it's call FREELOADER.
Freeloaders don't give a flying crap about what the people their taking advantage of think. All they care about is that they are getting a free ride.
I don't think you did anything wrong...in fact I would have done much more. I would have kicked his butt and the others to the curb, or start charging them rent. This world is far from free to live in, and everyone should be supporting themselves.
If the whole situation is causing major problems between you and your boyfriend, then it's time for him to step up to the plate and do something about it. Your hard earned money should be going towards you, and your contributions toward the household, not to supporting his family.
If it was me, I'd be glad the freeloader wasn't talking to me...that would keep him out of my house.
Stay strong, and stand your ground!!!
Brenda
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