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i'm i really shallow?
This guy asked me out through my friend. He's really nice and funny, but he is sooo ugly! I mean that's the only reason I said no! The other problem is my friend wanted him to ask her out, but she claimed she didn't like him (wierd huh)...
that's part (very small) of the reason i didn't say yes. Do you think i'm too shallow for saying tno just because of that?
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Hey,
your not shallow at all first of all he is ugly...second of all you did the right thing because your friend likes him and your respecting her feelings and third he didnt even have enough courage to ask you out to your face or atleast to you if he cant even do that how will he have enough courage to hang out with you or something soo your def not shallow your just not into him
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MissSiixty
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Hi, this is quite difficult to say. Lets say fair enough you don't want to go out with him. Would you let him be a friend? I think that if he's funny and nice, then he would make a good friend. But obviousley if you don't think he's attractive then fair enough don't go out with him. All I think is that if you like what's inside of him e.g funny, nice then you could grow to like the outside. However I can see what your trying to say. We all seem to go for people that look sexy or beautiful, wether it's their hair, clothes or plain old looks. Which kind of leaves the not so attractive people out of it in some ways. Just think about it maybe for another 2 days. If you still think no, than at least you've thought about it. Remember, it's not what's on the outside but the inside that counts. Let's take Austin Powers for example. I know that it's only a film, but he is'nt that attractive himself now his he? But the girls still liked him. Thats because he felt good about himself and had humour and was always smiling. Do you get my point. You don't have to be attractive. Maybe being attractive is a large part in teenage life. But as you get older it will become a small part. Make your own decisions. Just enjoy being young and date all the hot guys for now if you feel comfortable with that. But remember that being ugly does'nt mean that they are'nt worthy of your time. They might show you affection, and talk to you through the tough times. Thats what true love is. Daniel.
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Even though everyone says 'looks don't mean a thing', they do. So, no, you're not shallow. You don't have to hook up with the guy because YOU are the one thats hooking up with him.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
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It is kind of shallow, because as you know, looks arent everything. I mean I'm not saying you dont need to be attracted, because in this world, eveyrone wants someone they are attracted to you know? But you can fall in love with someones personality, and ifyou fall in love with that, you will start to think that he is good looking, you know? Love changes how you view the person, and how you view the world around you :)
Take care
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